"Love marriages or arranged marriages" is still a debatable topic in our society. People still debate on the issue, which one is better.
When we talk about arranged marriages, they offer more protection & security. Parents employ maturity and wise judgment when choosing suitable spouses for their children. Sometimes it helps to rely on another person's opinion and experience when selecting one's partner especially when the people marrying are young and need guidance and advice in marrying a suitable person.
On the other side one of the usual questions against an arranged marriage is that how can you marry somebody you don't know. Love marriages help people to choose their own marital partners without having to rely on parents, matchmakers, relatives or having to consult astrologers.Knowing somebody before marriage allows partners to have better respect and understanding for each other's needs and desires. This way they are better adjusted when they finally take their wedding vows.
Currently in our country we have arranged as well as love marriages successfully taking place. It becomes difficult therefore to predict the ideal sort of marriage. So ultimately it is up to the individual to decide whether he wants to have a love or an arranged marriage after all it is a question of being happy in love.

I know that each and every one of you will have an opinion on this topic. Please take part in the poll and express your opinion with a button click. And dont forget to share your ideas by posting them, even though it is not mandatory.

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I voted for love marriages, no one can "feel" a person better than yourself, maybe in the surface, for others, seems a nice person, but inside...you can trust only your instincts
For me matters the sparkle

Understanding between each other is essential which is possible only in love marriages. We can adjust only to a certain limit in our life in arranged marriages, but this doesn't happen in love marriages.

::Love::

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I had this email from a friend...thought id share it with u ppl...
Me personally ---> Love


Which One Will You Go For??

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hi mgt9. Think you need to re-upload the file you wanted to share.

it's hard for me to fathom going through an arranged marriage, it's not common in our culture. I've always wondered how those who've had to go through it feel about it, like are they resigned to it? Or do they wish they had other options...? I was pretty surprised to learn that it was still done, to be honest. And I learned about it just a couple of months ago

really interesting to find out how different things are done in another country, or how similar

re-uploaded the image

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I'm assuming u can divorce in an arranged marriage, right? I've heard that arranged marriages last longer. Unless I get hooked up with a slamming 10!!, then F**k that!!!

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I procrastinate....

id love to elope and marry.... the perfect filmy way...

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Not really from a culture where you expect to see too many arranged marriages, but I still have views on it. I hope I don't offend anyone too much by commenting without much experience of the practice.

In a way, parents trying to find a suitable partner is not something I oppose. It is not very different from friends trying to hook you up. What I do find wrong is when it is parents deciding the partner, either blatantly or by applying so much coercion there is little else to do. The individual has rights to decide, in personal life as in their medical treatment, what is best for them (regardless of what others think is best for them). Nothing should be forced upon them before they are capable of deciding themselves unless it is lifesaving.

My two pence.

PS. I don't just say this because my friends have no taste when trying to hook me up