View Poll Results: Is Pre-Marital Sex Morally Right Or Worng?

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Thread: Is Premarital Sex Right Or Wrong?

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    Wink Is Premarital Sex Right Or Wrong?

    hi frns... the ques is not an alien one but still it has a high social and emotional delimma associated with it. so pour in here your views about what u think.....!! a general opinion about the other side of our life....

    here's my take on it:-

    [HIDE]the question here is actually pointing towards the orignal sin, and that too before marriage.... hmmm... if the couple has no problem, what the hell can i do, so go on enjoy life...... NO bars from my side...[/HIDE]

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    Thumbs up check this out....!!

    Here's a Better answer to the question......

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    [HIDE]Consider this, is driving a car wrong? No. Is driving a car for an 13-year-old wrong? Yes. It's fun and exciting for the 13-year-old, but it puts his life and other lives in jeopardy.
    
    Is sex, which is fun, between a husband and wife wrong? No. Is sex wrong if it's with someone else's spouse? Yes. It may be fun and exciting, but it often brings tremendous heartache to that person's spouse and the children involved.
    
    We like to determine what is right and wrong, according to what we want. That's human nature. If we want to have sex with someone, we want to set our own standards. Often our standards are, if they're not married, then ok. But what if the other person is put at risk for a sexually transmitted disease? Now it gets fuzzy. What if the person is put at risk for pregnancy and faces the difficult decision of abortion? Fuzzy also. What if the person is a relative? What if the person is the same sex? What if it's sex for payment? What if it's sex for pornography? What if it involves children?
    
    What's fun and exciting to one person may be viewed as very wrong by someone else. Is it? Where does a person determine what is right and wrong?
    
    A loving God has made his wisdom on life known to us. He says that sin is pleasurable for the moment. There probably isn't any sin which is not at the moment pleasurable. But pleasure can't be our only standard for making decisions. Think how fun it would have been to really severely smack a younger brother or sister at times. Pleasurable for the moment, but fortunately we hold back because pleasure isn't our only guide.
    
    God wants to keep us from horrendous problems which we can bring on ourselves by the stupid decisions we make. He genuinely loves us and wants to protect us from decisions and behavior that will ruin our lives or someone else's life.
    
    Why does God (who created sex) restrict sex to marriage? Is it to spoil people's fun or to insure that a couple enjoys the deepest level of intimacy possible, reserved for only each other? When God gives us guidance his motives are pure and prompted by his love for us.
    
    People get used sexually for momentary fun and excitement, but what if there is something more valuable than momentary pleasure? Like dignity, self-esteem, knowing that you're also treating that other person with greater value? Perhaps God thinks relationships can be more intimate, secure and stronger if they are built on something more substantial than sexual involvement. Whatever God's reasons, his wisdom surpasses ours and he can be trusted. And quite often we later see the value of following him.[/HIDE]

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    Regardless of whether you consider it right or wrong --

    I think pre-marital sex is silly, stupid, idiotic, baseless, and pointless. So, I never bothered to care if it's right or wrong.

    If you need sex to feel a bond then there's no real bond. The right person will wait. IF there's no "right" person then at least you'll be better off alone than with the wrong person.

    My ethical concept is: you shouldn't have sex if you are not willing to accept the consequence/responsibility for it -- doesn't matter ETHICALLY if you're married or not.

    Sadly, ethics and common sense do not always overlap and this is such a case.

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    Rightly said Mind39 !!!!! I agree with you !!!

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    Well said Mind 39 !!! i agree with you fully !
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    good one mind..... but this is not a practical approach...... ppl do end up having premarital sex? the ques is, is this right or not.....

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    premarital sex is wrong! it is so wrong! but who really cares here? the trend of the society is having an earlier sex with multiple partners. no wonder the Bible says we are all sinners.

    if we say sex is only for marital relationship, nowadays we have a lot of divorces. in the end, we are still wrong. coz Bible says a couple should be together because of true love, and true love does not fade with time.

    we all know the moral, we are just not applying it.
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    gomco - I understand why you say it's not practical.

    For me, however, staying abstinent until I'm willing to become pregnant is common sense.

    Now, if common sense is not practical isn't that quite sad? In other words, is our society so hedonistic that it reduces common sense to an annoying itch in comparison to pleasure?

    When one understands the responsibility then pleasure becomes trivial. -- It's shouldn't be the other way around, but for many young people it unfortunately is. (I'm not really old unless you consider 23 to be old.)

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    Wow you guys have never been laid. Sad. Having sex is great. This thread is retarded.
    I procrastinate....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Powel6016 View Post
    Wow you guys have never been laid. Sad. Having sex is great. This thread is retarded.
    You are retarded my friend.
    If you'll do everything so fast & earlier then what'll you do l8r?
    Keep patience.
    Otherwise you'll retire earlier?
    Just kidding!!!!

    Well according to me if you'll sex before marriage then what'll you answer to your life-partner?
    Will you like if your life-partner has sexed with anyone similery?
    Maintain dignity.


    **This is my personal opinion. You are free to express yourself.

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