hi frns... the ques is not an alien one but still it has a high social and emotional delimma associated with it. so pour in here your views about what u think.....!! a general opinion about the other side of our life....

here's my take on it:-

Here's a Better answer to the question......

Regardless of whether you consider it right or wrong --

I think pre-marital sex is silly, stupid, idiotic, baseless, and pointless. So, I never bothered to care if it's right or wrong.

If you need sex to feel a bond then there's no real bond. The right person will wait. IF there's no "right" person then at least you'll be better off alone than with the wrong person.

My ethical concept is: you shouldn't have sex if you are not willing to accept the consequence/responsibility for it -- doesn't matter ETHICALLY if you're married or not.

Sadly, ethics and common sense do not always overlap and this is such a case.

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Well said Mind 39 !!! i agree with you fully !

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It Takes A Long Time To Grow An Old Friend

good one mind..... but this is not a practical approach...... ppl do end up having premarital sex? the ques is, is this right or not.....

premarital sex is wrong! it is so wrong! but who really cares here? the trend of the society is having an earlier sex with multiple partners. no wonder the Bible says we are all sinners.

if we say sex is only for marital relationship, nowadays we have a lot of divorces. in the end, we are still wrong. coz Bible says a couple should be together because of true love, and true love does not fade with time.

we all know the moral, we are just not applying it.

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gomco - I understand why you say it's not practical.

For me, however, staying abstinent until I'm willing to become pregnant is common sense.

Now, if common sense is not practical isn't that quite sad? In other words, is our society so hedonistic that it reduces common sense to an annoying itch in comparison to pleasure?

When one understands the responsibility then pleasure becomes trivial. -- It's shouldn't be the other way around, but for many young people it unfortunately is. (I'm not really old unless you consider 23 to be old.)

Wow you guys have never been laid. Sad. Having sex is great. This thread is retarded.

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I procrastinate....

You are retarded my friend.
If you'll do everything so fast & earlier then what'll you do l8r?
Keep patience.
Otherwise you'll retire earlier?
Just kidding!!!!

Well according to me if you'll sex before marriage then what'll you answer to your life-partner?
Will you like if your life-partner has sexed with anyone similery?
Maintain dignity.

**This is my personal opinion. You are free to express yourself.