well said

I'm from Tamilnadu . Pre-marital sex in my place , just can't even think about it.Here people will think bad of us even if they see us moving with a girl b4 marriage. There is a right time for everything and it should be done in a moral way.

Wow, what cerebral answers. Too bad that's not what its about. Sex is emotional. Not to be analyzed. It's the uber-nerds who analyze it and think you don't "need" to have premarital sex, and coincidentally they aren't put into positions where they have to actually make the decision as to whether to have premarital sex or not. You were given a cock for a reason. Use it.

hey mind39, you got a great approach..I am deeply impressed.
I think Pre-marital sex is senseless.
if the person is so nice and wonderful to have sex with,is he/she not worth marrying(and then have sex)?
Or if the person doesnt even deserve to be your life partner,why would one want to have sex with him?
And if one is having sex just for the sake of it, feel pity for him.

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thanks crew.

step 1 this june so I'll be getting busy : /

take care.

I'm quite surprised by this thread.

I think that there is nothing inherently right or wrong in having sex, as long as both people involved consent to it of course. If you feel that having premarital sex is wrong for you, then do not have it. To each their own, in my opinion. I couldn't see myself practicing medicine with any other mindset.

If you do insist on basing an argument on common sense, I feel I must point out that I agree with Einstein largely that common sense is prejudice acquired before the age of 18. Common sense once dictated that slavery was right, monarchs were the righteous rulers granted their power from god, etc.

an excellent answer gom .....God bless you

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some good points here though I may point out that there is not much right with premarital sex either. It comes down to responsibility. Responsibility of parenthood, respecting yourself, and respecting your partner. To lump all premarital sex into the same category is not fair in my opinion. For example, an exclusive couple that has been together for 4 years having premarital sex verses being drunk and not even knowing your partners name. This is not the same thing. Hopefully the couple that has been together will accept the responsibilities that may arise. The divorce rate in the US was over 50% last time I checked so marriage is not a magic antidote either. The key point should be the people involved instead of being a piece of paper and a ceremony.

By the way I am married, and I see more "wrong" in domestic violence and marital problems than in premarital sex in general.

In my own opinion, premarital sex is wrong and I leave it like that

Premarital sex of course rocks n its grr8 but guys the BIG question here is that "Is it MORALLY right\wrong?" Well Ofcourse its "MORALLY WRONG". A person who says its right has got to be a hypocrite cuz no matter what we do or say we ultimately want a partner whos faithful to us alone n its a big turn-off to know that the love of ur life was intimate with someone else before u. We Indians dont just do sex like animals for procreation. It does mean a lot to us in 'non-physical' terms. Its the ultimate expression of love (i know it sounds cheesy but thats true). Sex connects us not only physically but at emotional levels too. This doesnt mean that we are primitive. In fact this is an utmost modernistic and civilized attitude towards sex. Those who treat it just as a physical act and nothing else are behaving like primitive humans & animals cuz thats what animals do (screwing around everyone they come around). We are humans and ofcourse have evolved. We have accepted sex not just as a physical fling or a one-night stand. We have EVOLVED & this is the future if human race wants EMOTIONS & LOVE to be an integral part of their life in the future.

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